Date night outfits for valentine's day or romantic night out 40+style (2024)

It’s nice to get dressed up for your other half especially on Valentine’s Day which is just around the corner. It shows you care enough to make an effort for them. Plus, looking good gives your own confidence a boost. So, if you are lucky enough to be planning a date night, what should you wear? This article has all the date night outfits you need, whether you’re planning a casual date or a more formal night out.

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Below, you will find a date night capsule for inspiration. But, before taking a look, let’s think about what you might want to include in your date night outfits.

What’s important in date night outfits

For a date night, you’ll want to exude some subtle, or not-so-subtle sex appeal, and maybe a little romance. So, you could think about wearing colors normally associated with love, such as pinks or reds.

You can add romantic floral prints – choose graphic prints rather than anything old-fashioned, and also think about the texture of your clothes. Choose tactile materials such as silk, satin, velvet and leather. You’ll find some of each in the capsule below.

All of the items come from Nordstrom whom we collaborated with for this article. The one shop that has it all; from affordable brands to high-end designer.

tops

If you’re wearing separates for your date night, you’ll want to think about your top first. This is particularly important if you are going for dinner, as the rest of your outfit will be hidden by the table for most of the night.

Leather will add a bit of an edge to your outfit, while sheer fabrics will subtly show off a little skin. You could also think about cowl necks to add glamour, and tops with a graphical print.

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Anne Klein Gathered Neck Faux Leather T-ShirtMisook Cowl Neck Crêpe de Chine TopTed Baker London Kattiyia Floral Satin BlouseAnne Klein Flocked Dot Tie Front Blouse

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River Island Ruched Sleeve BlazerAnne Klein Gathered Neck Faux Leather T-ShirtTed Baker London Tansyat Wide Leg Velvet TrousersComme des Garçons PLAY x Converse Chuck Taylor®Red Sole Low Top SneakerKurt Geiger London Kensington Croc Heart Micro Crossbody BagJenny Bird Layla Heart Pendant Wrap BraceletJenny Bird Layla Heart Drop Earrings

Jackets and coats

If it’s chilly where you are, and you need an overcoat, choose a long style that is longer than the hem on your dress. For a more casual approach, you could think about a moto jacket, while a cape style will add glamour to your outfit.

If you want a cover up that you can continue to wear throughout the date, a blazer if always a stylish option. Choosing a blazer in red ensures that it is more date night appropriate, rather than looking like workwear.

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River Island Ruched Sleeve BlazerAnne Klein Cape Notched Lapels JacketAnne Klein Faux Leather Moto JacketCole Haan Signature Flared Belted Wool Blend Trench Coat

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Cole Haan Signature Flared Belted Wool Blend Trench CoatAnne Klein Heart Print Long Sleeve Wrap DressCalvin Klein Loden Pointed Toe PumpCOACH Tabby Pebbled Leather Crossbody BagLele Sadoughi Candy Heart Stud Earrings

Pants and jeans

If you’re more of a pants and jeans person rather than skirts and dresses, you can put together an elegant outfit, while keeping your legs covered. As long as you aren’t going somewhere very formal, you could choose to dress up your denim.

Or, look out for sophisticated wide-leg pants, and materials such as silk, satin or velvet.

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Wit & Wisdom Ab-Solution High Waist Itty Bitty Bootcut JeansNordstrom High Waist Wide Leg PantsPolo Ralph Lauren Flat Front Satin TrousersTed Baker London Tansyat Wide Leg Velvet Trousers

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Anne Klein Cape Notched Lapels JacketTed Baker London Kattiyia Floral Satin BlousePolo Ralph Lauren Flat Front Satin TrousersSam Edelman Wanda Pointed Toe FlatKurt Geiger London Kensington Croc Heart Micro Crossbody BagNadri Leah Statement Hoop Earrings

Dresses and skirts

A stylish dress or skirt is always a good option for date night. A wrap style is universally flattering for all body types. You can also think about a beautiful black dress (the print on the Ted Baker dress below gives it a point of difference), or you could add some interest with asymmetry, like on the hemline of the blue skirt.

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Fraiche by J Long Sleeve Faux Wrap DressTed Baker London Averiee Abstract Floral Satin SlipdressAnne Klein Heart Print Long Sleeve Wrap DressTed Baker London Chancie Ruched Waterfall Gauze Midi Skirt

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Ted Baker London Averiee Abstract Floral Satin SlipdressOpen Edit Tilly Pointed Toe BootieKurt Geiger London Kensington Croc Heart Micro Crossbody BagNadri Leah Statement Hoop Earrings

Shoes and boots

Moving onto shoes, heels are an obvious choice, and help to elevate any outfit. But you can also think about pointed flats, booties, or even sneakers if your date is more casual.

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Sam Edelman Wanda Pointed Toe FlatCalvin Klein Loden Pointed Toe PumpOpen Edit Tilly Pointed Toe BootieComme des Garçons PLAY x Converse Chuck Taylor®Red Sole Low Top Sneaker

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River Island Ruched Sleeve BlazerTed Baker London Kattiyia Floral Satin BlouseWit & Wisdom Ab-Solution High Waist Itty Bitty Bootcut JeansCalvin Klein Loden Pointed Toe PumpCOACH Tabby Pebbled Leather Crossbody BagLele Sadoughi Candy Heart Stud Earrings

accessories

You can add some playful touches with your accessories. The jewelry and black bag (below) feature heart designs. Or, add a pop of color with a red clutch bag.

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COACH Tabby Pebbled Leather Crossbody BagKurt Geiger London Kensington Croc Heart Micro Crossbody BagJenny Bird Layla Heart Pendant Wrap BraceletJenny Bird Layla Heart Drop EarringsNadri Leah Statement Hoop EarringsLele Sadoughi Candy Heart Stud Earrings

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Anne Klein Faux Leather Moto JacketMisook Cowl Neck Crêpe de Chine TopWit & Wisdom Ab-Solution High Waist Itty Bitty Bootcut JeansCOACH Tabby Pebbled Leather Crossbody BagJenny Bird Layla Heart Pendant Wrap BraceletJenny Bird Layla Heart Drop Earrings

Your date night outfits together in one capsule

Below, you can see the clothes, shoes and accessories used above together in one capsule. You could easily mix and match all the tops, bottoms, coats and shoes around to create plenty of different looks.

You could, for instance, wear the leather-look top with the jeans, the pink top with the white pants, the white or red jacket over the black dress, or the floral top with the velvet pants.

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Date night outfits for valentine's day or romantic night out 40+style (2024)

FAQs

What should I wear on a date at 40? ›

For women, go with a little black dress or a casual blouse and jeans finished with feminine accessories and a natural makeup look. Stick to solid colors or small-scale prints and avoid anything with loud patterns and obnoxious colors that may distract your date.

What do you wear on Valentine's date night? ›

Outfits for a casual Valentine's Day date night

If you're going out but want to keep things more low-key, Gulbransen suggests pairing your favorite pants or jeans with a Valentine's Day-inspired blouse or sweater. Or, you can up the ante and try a fun pair of red trousers.

What is date night dress code? ›

Cute and casual date night outfits can be as basic as jeans and a graphic t-shirt to dresses and flirty sandals for the ladies. For men, jeans are most common and are easy to elevate with a crisp button-down shirt or a sport coat over a tee.

How should I dress for a romantic night? ›

The key is to strike a balance between looking attractive and feeling comfortable. For a casual coffee or brunch date, try a flowy maxi dress paired with sandals or sneakers. For a more formal setting, a little black dress or a tailored suit can make a sophisticated statement.

How to look trendy at 40? ›

What looks good on a 40 year old woman?
  1. High-waisted shorts paired with a flowy blouse and wedges.
  2. A longer denim skirt paired with a tucked-in tank top and espadrilles.
  3. Wide-leg linen trousers paired with a lightweight sweater or tank and slip-on sneakers.
  4. A swimsuit with a chic cover-up and oversized sunglasses.

How to dress like the 40s woman? ›

Popular 1940s outfits for women included square-shouldered jackets with simple blouses and a matching skirt, shirtwaist dresses in long or short sleeves, and Kitty Foyle dresses (dark dresses with white or light collars and cuffs).

What is the best color to wear on Valentine's Day? ›

Pink and Red are the most commonly worn colours on Valentine's Day. These also happen to be one of the best colour combinations for a statement outfit. Red signifies love and pink means gentleness.

What color should I wear on Valentines date? ›

Red is the symbol of love, romance, and desire, making it the ideal color for a day with that special someone.

What is the dress color code for Valentine's Day? ›

The usual dress code for a Valentine's day theme party is a red dress. However, some women prefer to be wearing pink and that is perfectly acceptable. You can chose to wear anything in red, a long red gown or a short little red dress to fit with the theme of love.

What is the perfect date outfit? ›

You want your outfit to feel as laid-back as the date. "Opt for a casual, easy vibe," Priyanka says. "Keeping it low-key is the main focus." As jeans are practically the definition of casual, they're an ideal choice. "Light-wash, high-waist denim with a T-shirt is a great look and also very classic," Priyanka notes.

What should I wear on a first date in my 40s? ›

Wear something that you look good in that is appropriate for where you are meeting for lunch. A nice blouse/shirt and jeans is always a solid first date choice for a woman. You can add a light jacket or sweater if it's cold.

What should date night look like? ›

A date night is an occasion where a couple dedicates time to be spent together, usually alone, with the purpose of reconnecting and bonding. A date night usually consists of a main activity, such as a dinner and/or a movie, or a few activities planned one after the other.

What is romantic style clothing? ›

Since its characteristic shape is the oval, romantic clothing features soft, flowing garments that create movement, hourglass silhouettes, and floral patterns. The romantic style essence creates a sensual, mature image and an overall visual impression of glamour and sensuality.

How do you dress seductive and classy? ›

Define your waist and wear balanced looks to be classy but sexy, like pairing a short skirt with a top that has longer sleeves or a higher neckline. Choose colors that compliment you, like dark purples and greens for cool skin tones, metallics for warm skin tones, and bright colors for neutral skin tones.

What to wear to look seductive? ›

Things You Should Know
  1. Get some sexy underwear, such as lingerie or a special bra and panties set.
  2. Wear clothes that show off your figure, like a tight t-shirt, a nightie, or a playsuit.
  3. Accentuate your legs with thigh highs or fishnets and heels.
  4. Ditch clothing altogether and sleep in your birthday suit!

What age should a 40 year old woman date? ›

Dating Age Rule. The dating age rule to determining a socially acceptable age difference in partners goes something like this: half your age plus seven (40 = 20 +7 = 27) to define the minimum age of a partner and your age minus seven times two (40 = 33 * 2 = 60) to define the maximum age of a partner.

How to flirt at 40? ›

Flirting: 9 Basic Guidelines for the Mature Single
  1. Direct looks and genuine smiles. Your face is what they see. ...
  2. Subtlety. Ladies, men admire an understated approach, and men, women do too. ...
  3. Sincerity. Everyone likes a compliment—as long as it's genuine. ...
  4. Body Language. ...
  5. Touch. ...
  6. Conversation. ...
  7. Humor. ...
  8. Attention.

How to flirt with a 40 year old man? ›

Top Tips for Attracting and Older Man: How to Talk, Act, and Dress
  1. Don't Ignore The Age Gap ... But Don't Focus on it Either.
  2. Don't Assume They're Wealthy.
  3. Be Open About your Attraction to Older Men.
  4. Use Positive Body Language To Help Your Words Connect.
  5. Don't expect them to pay - show your financial independence.
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